Have you ever been avi watching and spotted someone you thought hmm I don't like her or him for some reason? then your brain kicks in and you know that is totally crazy, you can't dislike someone you don't know right?
Recently this happened to me, I had seen this avi around for a while watched them, sl brain saying nope I don't like them, they are full of it etc.
Then out of the blue I got into a conversation with this person and for about five minutes I thought see you were wrong they are indeed an OK person, fast forward ten minutes into the IM and you realise that they are indeed (for me) an unlikeable person.
Five minutes into any conversation I am not telling someone how popular I am, or how fabulous I am or how the world loves me in general.
I wonder if their vanity will make them assume this is about them? or maybe they are so totally wonderful in every way they would NEVER associate this with themselves-I await the outcome.
In this case my first impression was unfortunately right-go figure!
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